They always say it. They always whisper it. “Oh, she’s just the babysitter.”It’s a knife to the gut every single time, a dull, rusty blade twisting deep inside a wound that never truly heals. Just the babysitter. Just. If only they knew. If only they could see past the polite smile I paste on my face, past the quiet presence I maintain in their perfect, bustling home.She’s running towards me now, a flash of pink and glitter, her laugh echoing off the high ceilings. She throws herself into my arms, a whirlwind of pure, unfiltered joy. Her small hands cup my face, her bright eyes, the exact shade of summer sky, search mine.
“Tell me a story, please?” she begs, her voice a sweet, irresistible melody. My heart aches with a tenderness so profound it’s physically painful. This is my favorite part of the day, these moments when the world shrinks down to just us, when her warmth seeps into me, healing the edges of my soul, even as it tears me further apart.
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I hold her close, inhaling the scent of wildflowers and childhood, pressing my cheek against her soft hair. If only I could tell you the truth, my love. I spin a tale of brave knights and mischievous dragons, making up characters and adventures on the fly, just for her. She hangs on every word, her imagination alight. She is brilliant, curious, kind. She is everything to me. And to everyone else, I am just… the help.
I’ve been here almost her whole life. Since she was a tiny, fragile bundle, barely big enough to fill my arms. The first time I held her, it was like finding the missing piece of my own heart. A recognition so primal, so undeniable, it took my breath away. And then came the whispered instructions, the careful rules, the absolute necessity of the secret.
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They’re good people, the ones she calls “Mommy” and “Daddy.” They love her fiercely, openly, without reservation. They’ve given her a beautiful life, a stable home, every advantage. I watch them from the periphery, observe their interactions, their easy affection, the way they talk about her future, and a cold dread settles in my stomach. They’re living my dream. My stolen dream. Sometimes, I catch myself looking at them, wondering if they ever feel a pang of guilt, a flicker of awareness that the most precious thing in their lives was given to them under duress, a painful, desperate exchange. But no, they look utterly content, utterly convinced of their parenthood. And why wouldn’t they be? They chose this. I didn’t.
I remember the shame, the fear, the crushing weight of judgment. I was too young, they said. Too unprepared. My own family, tight-lipped and grim-faced, laid out the plan. It’s for the best. For her future. For yours. My older sister and her husband, stable and childless, were willing to step in. A perfect, ready-made family. And I… I would get to stay close. I would get to be “the babysitter.” My desperation was a suffocating blanket. I was drowning. I agreed. I signed the papers, my hand shaking so violently the pen almost slipped from my grasp. I gave her away, piece by agonizing piece, believing I was doing what was right, what was best. Believing I would still be her rock, her confidante, her secret protector.
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And I have been. For six glorious, agonizing years. I’ve witnessed every milestone, celebrated every triumph, soothed every scraped knee. I’ve taught her to read, to tie her shoes, to make friendship bracelets. I’ve known her silent fears, her wildest hopes. I know the exact inflection of her voice when she’s about to lie, the specific way she hums when she’s deep in thought. I know her better than anyone else on this earth. Better than the people who get to call themselves her parents. Better than the people who will write her name on school forms, who will walk her down the aisle one day.
But there are days, dark, suffocating days, when the lie chokes me. When she calls for “Mommy” and it’s not me, even though I’m the one who dried her tears, fixed her broken toy, read her five bedtime stories in a row. Sometimes, she’ll say something innocent, like, “You’re like my second mom!” and my heart will lurch. No, sweet girl. I’m your first. My only. The one who had to give you up to give you everything.
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And then, last week. The conversation. It was casual, over dinner with the “parents.” They were laughing, talking about a new job opportunity, an incredible offer that couldn’t be refused. They spoke of new beginnings, of wide-open spaces, of a fresh start. My blood ran cold. I felt a tremor deep within my bones, a premonition of disaster. No. Please, no.
They saw my face, saw the sudden pallor, the wide, panicked eyes. “Oh, don’t worry,” her ‘mother’ said with a gentle smile, “we’ve already found you a wonderful reference. You’re so good with her, you’ll find another family in no time.”
My breath caught in my throat. I couldn’t speak. I couldn’t move. My world, already precariously balanced on a thread of secrets, was crumbling around me.
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“We’re moving,” her ‘father’ beamed, oblivious to the silent scream tearing through my soul. “Across the country. Starting next month.”
Next month. NEXT MONTH. My knees almost buckled. This wasn’t just a job. This wasn’t just babysitting. This was my life. She was my life. I couldn’t breathe. The air in the room became thin, sharp, like glass shards. The world spun. All I could see was her, her bright, innocent face, unaware of the impending earthquake.
They were talking about packing, about schools, about new adventures. And I was sitting there, mute, a ghost in my own tragedy. They were making plans, plans that ripped her away from me, tore my heart from my chest, shattered every single fragile piece of the life I had built around her. And I couldn’t protest. I couldn’t yell. I couldn’t beg. Because if I did, if I spoke the truth, if I claimed what was mine, I would expose everything. I would break the promise I made, the promise that was supposed to keep her safe, keep her loved, keep her from knowing the messy, painful truth of her beginning. I would shatter her entire, beautiful, innocent world.
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They don’t know what they’re doing. They don’t know the monster they’ve created by allowing me this close, this deeply into her life, only to snatch her away. They think I’m just sad to lose a good job. They think I’m just attached to the child I’ve cared for.
But I’m not just attached. I’m not just sad. And I am not just the babysitter. I am her mother. And they’re taking her from me, next month, across the country. And I have to stand here, silent, smiling, and watch it happen, because I swore I would keep her secret safe. Even if it means losing her forever.
